“For the best experience, open on your PC @ tab.so/friends.”
“Don’t worry about reading everything—see how far you get!”
Part 1: Standard Job Applications
Right after school, I set out to land my first tech job. Within two weeks, I had an interview lined up with a UK-based company for a full-stack developer role. Here’s what it took to get that interview:
Persistence: I literally stalked the founder across all platforms—DMs, tweets, replies—until he noticed me.
Preparation: I spent two solid days prepping for the interview, researching the company, and practicing my responses.
When the day came, the founder seemed impressed by my enthusiasm and the level of research I’d done. But guess what? That still wasn’t enough. A few days later, I got the classic, “We’d prefer a more experienced candidate.” 💔
Coming Soon: I’ll share the exact document I used to prepare, along with all the lessons I learned.
Part 2: Cold Mailing
After the rejection, I was depressed, started questioning my life—binging TV shows for two days straight. Once I bounced back, I thought deeply about my skill set and how to leverage it to stand out.
Lesson: I realized - direct communication with business owners was very important. So I figured cold emailing would be the best way to reach them creatively, especially content creators.
I dove deep into YouTube tutorials on cold mailing, drafting proposals, and writing emails. I even continued disturbing my friend to review everything. Everything took me a whole week.
The result? Silence. Not a single response. Talk about discouraging! 😅
Part 3: New Strategy?
Will be revealed in my full story…
Part 4: New Challenge?
As always, I took time to evaluate and think, “What can I learn and improve on?” This led to an exciting new idea:
Why not share my experiences with students and help them learn from my mistakes? 🎉
Ooh! Wait, I just realized that's where I'm currently at 😂 Hey, Hi 👀 Have we met? I'm Goody 😁.
Although I’m yet to succeed, I do have lots of successful friends we can all learn from😎.
Goody and friends
Since I deferred, I have friends from two different sets. And one thing is common amongst them. The ones really earning well atm are those in Tech and most especially - those who started earlier.
Exceptions? Ofc there are a few exceptions e.g. David Akanmu(who got a full scholarship to continue schooling abroad) but you definitely don't want to bank on something with a low success rate in these harsh times. 5.0 is no easy feat 👀.
Then there are bank roles increasingly becoming popular. I have a very good friend I met at ALX who earns a good salary at UBA too.
Goody’s Journey – Join the Community
Well, let me introduce myself officially…👀
Hey there! I’m Goody💙, founder of PQ Library and I recently completed Civil Engineering 500 level with a passion for tech, building things, and helping others do the same. I completed ALX Africa’s Software Engineering program and I love to make people’s lives easier with Tech.
How to Make Like-minded Friends or More Friends in Tech
This has been a huge challenge for me. I have interests that most people around me don’t seem to share. Although I’m happy with the few friends I have, I honestly wish I attempted what I’m about to share with you while in school.
Anyway, as they say -
Better late than never 😎
I’m building a community called TekkyClub for students interested in tech—not just to land jobs, but to learn how to use tech to start something of their own, like a business. Tech is such a broad topic these days, and there’s a lot we can explore together.
PS: I’m not here to play some distant “expert” role but more like the big brother I wish I’d had, guiding you through tech and whatever else you’re passionate about.
What You’ll Get from Joining Me:
1. Support and Community
I’m creating a space for people who genuinely want to learn and grow. You don’t need any tech skills to join—just bring an open mind and a drive to try new things. I want to connect people interested in tech and the business side of tech, and I’ll be sharing everything I’ve learned along the way.
2. Real Advice, Not Fluff
Whether it’s finding free resources for any tech skill (I’ve never spent a dime on any course) or connecting you with the right people, I’m here to help—no strings attached. I’ll also keep it real about my own wins and mistakes, because honestly, we’re all learning.
3. Practical Help
I’ll help you set up a good-looking portfolio like mine (for free—I don’t pay for anything on my site, by the way).
I’ll guide you through any tech skills you’re learning, showing you how to overcome roadblocks and even figure things out on your own.
I’ll either help you land a job or—if that doesn’t work out just yet (like me)—we’ll create one ourselves.
I’ll share how I learn new skills quickly and efficiently.
What I Can’t Do:
Instant Solutions: I’m still hustling too! I don’t have money to give or any magic answers for instant success. Growth takes time, effort, and sometimes a few setbacks (trust me, I know). But if you’re committed, I’ll support you however I can.
Who is this for?
This is open to all but I have a few words for some of you!
To Bookworms
I’ll be real with the bookworms for a second:
I respect academic dedication—graduating with a first class is no easy feat, and I couldn't achieve it myself. But I’d encourage bookworms to keep an open mind and think carefully about what they truly want in life. I’d also respect even more—those who can achieve top grades without sacrificing their well-being or other important areas. Life needs balance, and these days, a first class degree isn’t the golden ticket many think it is.
Most first class graduates I know are facing real struggles. But I also know one who didn’t just study—they balanced studying an Engineering course with socializing, networking, and even a real estate business. They’re now doing well financially, and funnily enough, got their current job through a happy customer who became a friend.
Take what you need from that!
To Introverts
Before this year I was a really shy introvert. It was as bad as me avoiding classes because I would rather not be involved in physical conversations. I feel I became that way as a result of strict parenting.
Anyway, I’m over that phase now and 2024 has been my coming out year where I truly showcased the contents of my suitcase for everyone to see. I'm not done yet and I want to help people who are like me figure out how they can connect with others, make good friends and find their place in the world.
I want to help you see that there are good friends out there who’d genuinely care about you.
Come with an open mind and let's unleash your true potential!
I’m passionate about helping Nigeria’s youth rise together. Whether it’s skills, mindset, or just knowing you’ve got people rooting for you, I believe we’re stronger as a community. And I’m looking for friends who share the same vision—creating, building, thriving, connecting, and having fun while at it.
And hey, I know I would’ve made way fewer mistakes if I had friends like you 🙂.
You Don’t Need Fancy Tools to Start
I started with (and still use) a pretty basic setup: a 2013 HP Folio laptop with a 5-minute battery (that sometimes turns into a TV) and my Infinix Hot 12. All you need is what you’ve got right now, plus the determination to make the best of it. Don’t let anyone tell you you’re “not smart enough” to code, create, or pursue what you’re passionate about. You can learn anything.
Advice and Tekky Club’s Goal
My Advice on Learning Tech Skills
One of the most powerful things I learned was to skip “perfecting” a skill before seeking real-world experience. With the basics, you can start with unpaid internships or real world projects to start getting hands-on experience. Real world projects, even if they’re unpaid at first, teach you way more than endless tutorials. You’ve got tools like ChatGPT, Google, and—if you join me—a community ready to help.
To 100-400 Level Students
Back in 200 Level, I was just getting over my prodigal kid phase. I got a 2.0 GPA in Year 1, 2nd semester because I couldn't stop myself from binge-watching Naruto - even during exams. Btw, I got a 4.2 in the first semester.
After that, I decided to focus on school and my grades quickly got back up. Well, not until my awakening..(will talk more about this in my full story).
Realization: Looking back, I wish I had tried to balance things out. I wish there had been someone to advice me—not to abandon grades but to show me that there was more to learn beyond academics.
This is a rare opportunity! Grab it now!
To 500 Level Students
If you're in Civil, I left a little gift for you. Pls dm me. You’d find it really useful for your final year.
500 Level was the year I really stepped up, contributing to my class and learning so much along the way.
It's never too late to make a difference, but the longer you wait the tougher it gets.
I didn't start early enough, now it's so tough to get a Tech job.
You're in the best spot to take advantage of this opportunity. Join me now and let's prove that late bloomers are the real deal 😌.
My Skills and Journey So Far
Since late 2022, I’ve been collecting skills that have become stepping stones on my journey:
Full-stack Development – Next.js, Python, JavaScript, and TypeScript
Writing & Technical Writing – Mostly using Notion for clear, organized notes and articles
Google Docs & Sheets – Used this in school for Tekky Notes and final year project.
Research & Problem-Solving – Credits to ChatGPT, Reddit, and Google.
Why This Matters: Sure, I’m a “jack of many trades,” and I love it that way! My goal isn’t to be top-tier in everything but to explore, build, and guide others along the way. If you’re like me, you don’t need endless resources—just a plan and dedication.
Pro Tip: I didn’t pay for any “tech guru” courses. I only ever invested in data to watch YouTube videos, read articles, and (of course) ask ChatGPT for help. Stop giving away cash to people who won’t care about your growth. I’m here to guide you at no cost!
And, the crazy part? I learned most of this in 2024 while juggling Civil Engineering Year 5 and battling with Dr. Akijie and co. If I can do it, so can you. Remember: no one is truly limited unless they believe it!
“Say Yes to Free Education!”
My Goal: Building a Supportive Network of Learners and Doers
I’m all about creating a community where people can learn, grow, and create together. Whether you’re interested in tech, starting a business, or finding your own path, let’s push each other to succeed.
Our club ultimately aims to solve real world problems, help great products grow and create content to spread joy and promote great products!
Think of me as your Tech Bestie 😋 – I’ll help you find the most efficient ways to get ahead, whether you want to dive into tech or become a well-rounded generalist. Plus, I’ll share cool tech tools you probably haven’t heard of and answer any questions (tech, life, or otherwise) you have along the way.
Ready to Connect?
Guidelines for Reaching Out:
If you’re serious about connecting, here’s how to make your first message count:
No “Hi” or “Good Afternoon” Messages: Go straight into why you’re reaching out! ⌛
Make It Relevant: Mention any shared interests, whether it’s a tech skill or how Naruto is the best anime ever 🤭 (One piece fans - Avoid me😒)
Think of This as a Team Effort: I’m not just here to help you. I’m looking for teammates and friends who want to grow together 💪🏾.
If You’re Ready to Join
Feel free to DM me. Before joining the group, I want to be sure you're genuinely interested and willing to contribute too. Make sure to mention the funniest part of this post too 🤭 or let me know that I’m unfunny 🥲.
First Task: Send a personalized message promoting this post to at least 3 friends. Good luck! 🙂
Bonus Content
More on My First Rejection: The Hovercode Story
Right after school, I came across Hovercode, a UK-based company on LinkedIn. It seemed perfect, especially since I could directly contact the founder. After applying, I went all in:
Creative Persistence: I followed the founder on LinkedIn and X, and when DMs didn’t work, I started replying to his tweets. Finally he even started replying to me.
Interview Mail: I finally got a mail to schedule an interview. I scheduled for 2 days later to give me time to prepare.
Thorough Preparation: I spent days obsessively researching and practicing. During the interview, he noted my enthusiasm for the role and the depth of my research.
Unfortunately, I didn’t get the job due to—you guessed it—“lack of experience.” I was crushed, spending the next two days binge-watching shows. But in time, I bounced back, realizing that maybe it wasn’t meant to be. At least I’d gotten that far—a real interview! And that felt like progress.
If your friends mock you for being broke, it’s a clear sign they’re not in it for you. True friends support each other, no ego trips or hidden agendas. So, if you’re looking for a supportive circle—or just a friend who “gets it”—you’re welcome in my community 😁.
Let me give you an example. One of my closest friends is an ALX graduate and a full-stack developer (Python, JS, Next.js). We used to freelance together, and he’d always insist I take the bigger share of our pay—even on projects I felt like he did the most work (I’m the one who always landed the gig tho, so maybe that’s why). Anyway I once tried to send him extra and he sent it right back. This guy is so generous it’s unreal, and I’m proud to call him a friend. He’s someone I’d do anything for, even if it means emptying my bank account (not that there’s much in there 🥲).
Recently, I visited him, and he spent N3,000 on my launch. As I was leaving, he casually asked if I had enough for transport. I told him - “I’m good, you’ve done enough already” , but he still withdrew cash and, as I got into the cab, “codedly” squeezed some money in my hand. When I got home, I texted him, “Bro, you gave me 5k for transport 😭?” That’s real friendship.
Imagine having friends like this and being able to do the same for them. I know some tech bros, one who earns $3k weekly and another who’s with Risevest. My advice?
Support a tech bro now that food is still on fire. If not, when food done - u no go fit chook spoon or cook your own. - Real life story
A Friendship Built on Big Ideas & Fun
One thing I love is brainstorming big ideas with friends, no limits. A typical convo could go something like this:
Me: “I’ve got this idea. It could help us ‘jand’ (move abroad).” Friend: “Go on…” Me: “So, we build the first flying car and—” Friend: “Get out😒.”
Okay, maybe that’s a joke (or not 🙃), but you get the idea. I’m all for sharing strategies and just enjoying things together—whether it’s Fantasy Premier League (FPL), anime, or whatever you’re into. I’m even watching a new anime right now but haven’t found anyone to hype it up with.
I’m not about debating who’s strongest or competing for the top spot; I’d rather vibe on the fun parts and grow together. And if that sounds like you too, then let’s connect!
Rare Snapshot of me trying to motivate a friend. Warning 🔞.
Part 1.
You definitely need a Goody in your life too 🙂. Dm me now.
More About Me:
Some of my favorite shows are Jumong, Avatar, Naruto, and Scorpion. They’re all about teams working together towards a shared goal, and that’s exactly the kind of energy I want to bring to our community.
Along with tech, I’ll share life skills I’ve learned as an introvert, like communication and connecting with others.
I’m also putting together my full story, so stay tuned! 👀
FAQ
What if I don't like coding?
I have two answers for you:
Have you really given it a try? I disliked coding the first time I tried it. School even made it worse for me due to their annoying teaching style. 2 years later I met someone who motivated and showed me how and where to start from. That’s how my journey began. I was also able to confirm that I disliked Civil Engineering only in my 4th year. I liked it at some point though.
Anyway, as a rule of thumb, I’d recommend 3 months of persistently trying something before you can even start considering that it just may not be for you. One year is enough to confirm though. The best way to be sure is to try it. Don’t just read or watch videos. You can learn to like anything. Love begins with interest. How can you dislike something you know nothing about? Give it a little more time.
You can also ask me for advice directly. Maybe I could guide you towards a decision.
What if I don’t have a laptop?
Ideally, you should never let anything or anyone stop you from achieving your dreams. I actually used to code on my phone at a point. That’s how determined I was.
My favorite is actually writing and I’d recommend using Google docs 😌.
What kind of Tech Skills can you guide me in?
Tbh, anything at all. If I don’t know much about it. I most likely have friends that do.
If I don’t have friends that do, I will make them 😌.
If I can’t, I will find a community related to the skill you’re interested in.
I can even start learning the skill just to help you out and so you don’t have to do it alone. I once took a Data Analytics course for a friend.
Ultimately, to learn any skill. These are all the tools you need:
Mindset and belief that you can learn it.
A community or friends also learning or have interest in it.
Youtube
ChatGPT
Google
Maybe me 🙃
Can I teach?
Honestly, I’ve left that job to the pros. I don’t like teaching unless I absolutely have to i.e. the student just can’t find a good explanation for it anywhere.
There’s way too many tutorials and resources online plus Mr. ChatGPT. I don’t see it as a good use of my time repeating what’s already been done by someone else.
Too good to be true! What am I really gaining?
I get the skepticism—it’s natural. My resume speaks for itself, but hear this proverb:
If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.
I have countless ideas I’d love to bring to life, but it’s tough when you’re working solo. For example, while I had some initial help with PQ Library, I ended up handling most of the work myself.
Now, imagine if more people gained the skills to truly collaborate on projects like this. We could build so much more together, with everyone growing and achieving great things along the way.
I’d be so happy to support your own great ideas too 😁.
Hopefully, that helps connect the dots!
Additionally, I’m not expecting everyone I help to contribute to my projects. Think of this as my way of giving back to the Unilag community. Unilag was where I discovered and transformed myself.
If these answers don’t quite satisfy you, that’s okay. You can simply move on. I’m genuinely grateful for the time you took to read all this—it truly means a lot! 😋
What if Rapture comes?
Well done, you must be a ton of fun irl 😒. I can imagine you must have a lot of wrinkles by now, constantly worrying over everything. Don’t bring negative energy to my club please. Nothing will happen. Just come, try and see for yourself 😌.